Top 59 Quotes & Sayings by Ivy Compton-Burnett

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Last updated on April 18, 2025.
Ivy Compton-Burnett

Dame Ivy Compton-Burnett, was an English novelist, published in the original editions as I. Compton-Burnett. She was awarded the 1955 James Tait Black Memorial Prize for her novel Mother and Son. Her works consist mainly of dialogue and focus on family life among the late Victorian or Edwardian upper middle class. Manservant and Maidservant (1947) is considered one of her best.

There is more difference within the sexes than between them.
A leopard does not change his spots, or change his feeling that spots are rather a credit.
My youth is escaping without giving me anything it owes me. — © Ivy Compton-Burnett
My youth is escaping without giving me anything it owes me.
People who have power respond simply. They have no minds but their own.
There is probably nothing like living together for blinding people to each other.
Well, of course, people are only human... But it really does not seem much for them to be.
At a certain point my novels set. They set just as hard as that jam jar. And then I know they are finished.
Time is not a great healer. It is an indifferent and perfunctory one. Sometimes it does not heal at all. And sometimes when it seems to, no healing has been necessary.
There isn't much to say. I haven't been at all deedy.
Duty is seldom liked either by the doer or the object ... And why should it be? It is not often of advantage to either.
Ah, we have to be generous to be grateful ... One has oneself to be a giver.
When I die, people will say it is the best thing for me. It is because they know it is the worst. They want to avoid the feeling of pity. As though they were the people most concerned!
Appearances are not held to be a clue to the truth,' said his cousin. 'But we seem to have no other.
I am ill at ease with people whose lives are an open book. — © Ivy Compton-Burnett
I am ill at ease with people whose lives are an open book.
Truth is so impossible. Something has to be done for it.
It is no good to think that other people are out to serve our interests.
To young people the future is still long.
I never agree with the compliments paid to it. It is not a great healer. It is an indifferent and perfunctory one. Sometimes it does not heal at all. And sometimes when it seems to, no healing has been necessary.
Our desires have a way of getting bigger with our incomes.
You should not want to know the things in people's minds. If you were meant to hear them, they would be said.
It will be a beautiful family talk, mean and worried and full of sorrow and spite and excitement.
Many people misjudge the permanent effect of sorrow, and their capacity to live in the past.
As regards plots I find real life no help at all. Real life seems to have no plots.
[On writing:] What a difficult kind of work to choose! But of course one did not choose it. There was no choice.
Dear, dear, the miniature world of the family! All the emotions of mankind seem to find a place in it.
We none of us talk to people as we do behind their backs.
Civilized life exacts its toll.
People's weaker side is not necessarily their truer self.
Never is a long word.
Real life seems to have no plots.
I never know why self-sacrifice is noble. Why is it better to sacrifice oneself than someone else?
We can build upon foundations anywhere if they are well and firmly laid.
People have never lost what they think they have.
Parents have too little respect for their children, just as the children have too much for the parents.
A plot is like the bones of a person, not interesting like expression, or signs of experience, but the support of the whole.
I think I feel on the whole that something's there trying to get out ... It's sort of trying to get out and wants help.
If I were not a child with my parents, they would be more unloving toward me.
As regards plot I find real life no help at all. Real life seems to have no plots. And as I think a plot desirable and almost necessary, I have this extra grudge against life.
I wonder the human race has been so fond of migrations, when the young take so hardly to traveling. — © Ivy Compton-Burnett
I wonder the human race has been so fond of migrations, when the young take so hardly to traveling.
Anyone who picks up a Compton-Burnett finds it very hard not to put it down.
Real charity and real ability never to condemn-the one real virtue-is so often the result of a waking experience that gives a glimpse of what lies beneath things.
A person who can really be called an unselfish person, has no place in life.
There is danger in courage. Cowardice is a power for good. We hardly know what it prevents.
some people always have a touch of youth about them.
We must use words as they are used, or stand aside from life.
Magnifying a matter is not the way to mend it.
We do not discuss the members of our family to their faces.
What concerns anyone so much as the time he has to live?
charm should be on the surface. It has no hidden use. — © Ivy Compton-Burnett
charm should be on the surface. It has no hidden use.
Well, Buttermere, this is a day that is good to live and breathe in, that makes a man feel in his prime. Standing here in front of my house, I feel as young as when I moved into it thirty years ago, in the year eighteen hundred and fifty-nine. What aged man would you take me to be, as I step as it were casually into your view?
Pushing forty? She's hanging on for dear life.
We are always children to our mothers.
The plot is not very important to me, though a novel must have one, of course. It's just a line to hang the washing on.
The most original novelist now writing in English.
Most of the pleasure of making a book would go if it held nothing to be shared by other people. I would write for a few dozen people, and sometimes it seems that I do so, but I would not write for no-one.
There are different kinds of wrong. The people sinned against are not always the best.
It is better to be drunk with loss and to beat the ground, than to let the deeper things gradually escape.
it is in our minds that we live much of our life.
It is not for us to hold ourselves above the position of grateful people. We have to be able to accept. Anything else shows an unwillingness to grant someone else the superior place.
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