Top 108 Quotes & Sayings by Letitia Baldrige

Explore popular quotes and sayings by an American writer Letitia Baldrige.
Last updated on November 7, 2024.
Letitia Baldrige

Letitia "Tish" Baldrige was an American etiquette expert, public relations executive and author who was most famous for serving as Jacqueline Kennedy's Social Secretary.

It behooves everyone to move forward, think forward.
CEOs are called by their first names by young whippersnappers. That makes everybody uncomfortable. We need order and structure back in the workplace.
We ought to be vigilantes for kindness and consideration. — © Letitia Baldrige
We ought to be vigilantes for kindness and consideration.
There is so much bad manners and oafishness in large corporations.
The polished executive is ultimately the happy executive who can walk gracefully through life.
For every rude executive who makes it to the top, there are nine successful executives with good manners.
If you take five taxis a day, one driver will be nasty, and the other four are perfectly nice. You remember the nasty one. But you should remember the four who were nice.
When in doubt, look at what everyone else is doing.
Business colleagues who have not seen each other for a long time but who have a good relationship can always shake hands warmly and grab each other's right upper arm or shoulder with their free left hand. Men and women executives should not kiss each other in public.
Knowing when and where to sit is something every young executive should learn. A junior person who comes barging into a room and takes any seat he wants catches the disapproving eye of senior management.
It's nice to compliment people on what they're wearing, but don't make insincere compliments.
Make people have a smile when they finish your e-mail.
I think that what we should do is have short, clipped conversations on the telephone so someone can always get us, not talking about inane stuff and having someone trying to get you. I also think we've just got to be more sensitive toward other people and not call them at night if you know they've been working.
A bride is a bride the first time around. The white dress and the white veil are symbolic. So many people are breaking the rules that people don't know what the rules are.
If you are someone's guest on a corporate jet, the most important thing to remember is not just to be on time, but to be early. If you hold up the departure of the jet by as much as 10 minutes, you may cause the plane to wait in line for another hour or two before obtaining new clearance.
I have grandchildren who are going to need every cent I make. — © Letitia Baldrige
I have grandchildren who are going to need every cent I make.
I never made any money, but I had the best jobs in the world.
For every step forward in electronic communications, we've taken two steps back in humanity. People know how to use a computer and answering machines but have forgotten how to connect with one another. Our society is unraveling. We're too self-obsessed.
We have lost the art of conversation. People are shy and don't know how to approach other people, and they are missing opportunities for relationships. And no one's entertaining at home anymore. They're not having people over for dinner.
What the bride should do is call guests who have young children and say: 'I'd love to have the kids at the wedding, but we won't have room. Would you get a baby sitter, and when we get back from our honeymoon, we'll have you guys over?'
If somebody is disrespecting somebody, we should step in - even at the risk of getting slugged over the head.
It's very important with these young people who are graduating and getting married to write thank-you notes.
Politeness decrees that you must listen to be kind; intelligence decrees that you must listen to learn.
I don't ever knock anybody; that's bad manners.
We need grace in our lives, and I'm not talking about heavenly grace. I'm talking about human grace. We should try and be warm and friendly.
Good manners are cost effective. They not only increase the quality of life in the workplace, they contribute to employee morale, embellish the company image, and play a major role in generating profit.
Before the Kennedys were elected, there had been older Presidents. Then here was this devastatingly attractive young couple with two beautiful children. They were so intelligent, graceful, gracious and funny. They enjoyed life so much. That's what caught America's eye.
I don't care what your politics are, I would wager that if you asked any American woman which administration would she have most liked to work for as social secretary, she would pick Jacqueline Kennedy's White House as the place to be.
There are major CEOs who do not know how to hold a knife and fork properly, but I don't worry about that as much as the lack of kindness.
An excellent wine, someone's best attempt at cooking, and the candles and flowers on the table can turn the simplest dinner into an unforgettably romantic event.
We're a nation of latchkey children. Manners start at home, and no one is at home teaching manners so that children have respect for others.
If golfers know they look good, they will play better. I think that is valid for men and women.
When writing a thank-you if you've had lunch with someone downtown, send an e-mail. If somebody is giving you a dinner party in his or her home and all the work that takes, that person deserves a written thank-you.
I've become a master of the apology.
If you care enough to look right, you care enough to act right. And vice versa.
I talk about beepers going off in the middle of a concert and people being late and not apologizing, and people not RSVP-ing, and adult children going back to live with their parents, which we didn't have in the '60s and '70s.
When you pass 70, you forget your enemies. You think about the nice people instead.
When someone is wearing a dress that makes her look fat, don't say 'That's a great dress.' It always comes off badly. — © Letitia Baldrige
When someone is wearing a dress that makes her look fat, don't say 'That's a great dress.' It always comes off badly.
I'm a businesswoman, and Ms. is an appropriate form of address.
Most people don't know how to take compliments. That's the biggest problem in America - we're hesitant to give compliments and embarrassed at getting them.
For years, people have re-dialed when the line was busy. They waited their turn. When I'm put on hold, I always hope that as my revenge, their other call will be someone wanting to sell them something.
A man or woman can be known and respected for good taste, regardless of job or income level, if they make good choices in clothes, have good table manners, are kind and organize their home to look warm, welcoming, clean, and appropriate to their station in life.
Doubleday is used to my talking about manners because I am, after all, known for that, and that's my persona.
Manners are nothing more than thinking about somebody else.
Manners make the world work. They're not only based on kindness but also efficiency. When people know what to do, the world is smoother. When no one knows what to do, it's chaos.
If you really screw up, send roses.
We are not passing values on to our children. We are not sitting down at the dinner table talking about the tiny things that add up to caring human beings.
I'm for anything that teaches consideration and kindness. If one can teach one's son to dance with the ugliest little girl in the room, that's the best lesson they can ever learn.
You'd be surprised how much easier it is to conduct business over tea than over lunch or dinner in a bustling restaurant.
Chivalry isn't dead. It's just no longer gender-based.
Everybody forgets names and faces, and it's just inconsiderate to expect someone who isn't your boss or your sister-in-law to know exactly who you are. — © Letitia Baldrige
Everybody forgets names and faces, and it's just inconsiderate to expect someone who isn't your boss or your sister-in-law to know exactly who you are.
Nothing ruins the flow of conversation more quickly than refusing a compliment you have just received. Never disagree with something nice that is said to you or about you.
A really first-class company uses really fine stationery.
I've had three broken legs and two knee replacements. But I'm very good at apres golf.
If the flu situation in your town is serious, cancel a large long-awaited party you had scheduled, but promise the guests in an e-mail that you will reschedule the party as soon as possible.
Tea time is a chance to slow down, pull back and appreciate our surroundings.
The First Lady has a lot of power. I hope Hillary Clinton realizes that.
Writers on etiquette receive a continuous flow of questions on subjects such as 'When is it too early in the season to wear white accessories?' and 'What is the proper gift to send to a family in mourning?'
At home, we're listening to TV or playing with our computers, so our entertaining is rusting. We don't know how to be good hosts and guests in business situations.
Look at all those unattractive people talking about depraved things all day long on TV talk shows. People can talk about themselves, yet the art of conversation, which has to do with sharing, is disappearing. I feel as though I am chasing a runaway locomotive.
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