People like to think the worst. They like to have hushed gossip sessions and point their fingers at someone's problems that are more obvious than their own.
Scars are but evidence of life.
Sometimes just the tiniest allocation of time spent with a friend, imprints on your mind and gives you something to smile about for the rest of the week, month, or your life!
Scars are but evidence of life and wounds we choose to allow the healing of. We may not make the same mistakes again.
The trick is finding a person whose flaws don't drive you crazy...you know...someone whose flaws you can live with...someone who can stand your flaws, too.