Top 73 Quotes & Sayings by Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de Sevigne

matrimony is a very dangerous disorder; I had rather drink.

Truth and tears clear the way to a deep and lasting friendship. True friendship is never serene.

good and evil travel on the same road, but they leave different impressions.

It is not always sorrow that opens the fountains of the eyes.

Not to find pleasure in serious reading gives a pastel coloring to the mind.

When I step into this library, I cannot understand why I ever step out of it.

Happiness, like misfortunes, never comes alone.

I dislike clocks with second-hands; they cut up life into too small pieces.

We are always on the side of those who speak last.

winter is past, and we have a prospect of spring that is superior to spring itself.

It is the fine rain that soaks us through.

Religious people spend so much time with their confessors because they like to talk about themselves.

... Providence conducts us with so much kindness through the different periods of our life, that we scarcely feel the change; our days glide gently and imperceptibly along, like the motion of the hour-hand, which we cannot discover. ... we advance gradually; we are the same to-day as yesterday, and to-morrow as to-day: thus we go on, without perceiving it, which is a miracle of the Providence I adore.

The world has no long injustices.

I am persuaded that the greater part of our complaints arise from want of exercise.

It is a disgraceful thing to be ignorant.

Were it not for the amusement of our books, we should be moped to death for want of occupation. It rains incessantly. ... we tickle ourselves in order to laugh; to so low an ebb are we reduced.

Nothing is so capable of overturning a good intention as to show a distrust of it; to be suspected for an enemy, is often sufficient to make a person become one.

Fortune is always on the side of the largest battalions.

I fear nothing so much as a man who is witty all day long.

. . . long journeys are strange things: if we were always to continue in the same mind we are in at the end of a journey, we should never stir from the place we were then in . . .

The heart has no wrinkles.

The desire to be singular and to astonish by ways out of the common seems to me to be the source of many virtues.

I know of no sorrow greater than that occasioned by a delay of the post.

There are twelve hours in the day, and above fifty in the night.

I love you so passionately, that I hide a great part of my love, so as not to oppress you with it.

Oh Dear! How unfortunate I am not to have anyone to weep with!

We must always live in hope; without that consolation there would be no living.

The human heart will never wrinkle

We like no noise unless we make it ourselves.

There is no real evil in life, except great pain; all the rest is imaginary, and depends on the light in which we view things

long journeys are strange things: if we were always to continue in the same mind we are in at the end of a journey, we should never stir from the place we were then in: but Providence in kindness to us causes us to forget it. It is much the same with lying-in women. Heaven permits this forgetfulness that the world may be peopled, and that folks may take journeys to Provence.

Gloom and sadness are poison to us, and the origin of hysterics. You are right in thinking that this disease is in the imagination; you have defined it perfectly; it is vexation which causes it to spring up, and fear that supports it.

Occupation is the best safeguard for women under all circumstances--mental or physical, or both. Cupid extinguishes his torch in the atmosphere of industry.

... we ought to be astonished at nothing; for what do we not meet with in our journey through life?

if I inflict wounds, I heal them.

. . . it seldom happens, I think, that a man has the civility to die when all the world wishes it.

We like so much to talk of ourselves that we are never weary of those private interviews with a lover during the course of whole years, and for the same reason the devout like to spend much time with their confessor; it is the pleasure of talking of themselves, even though it be to talk ill.

Racine will pass away like the taste for coffee.

... truth ... carries authority with it; while falsehood and lies skulk under a load of words, without having the power of persuasion; the more they attempt to show themselves, the more they are entangled.

Ah, what a grudge I owe physicians! what mummery is their art!

. . .the most astonishing, the most surprising, the most marvelous, the most miraculous. . . the greatest, the least, the rarest, the most common, the most public, the most private till today. . . I cannot bring myself to tell you: guess what it is.

True friendship is never serene.

We are never satisfied with having done well; and in endeavoring to do better, we do much worse.

There is nobody who is not dangerous for someone.

If you are not feeling well, if you have not slept, chocolate will revive you. But you have no chocolate! I think of that again and again! My dear, how will you ever manage?

the days, and the months, and the years, pass so swiftly, that I can no longer retain them. Time, in its flight, hurries me away, in spite of myself; in vain I endeavor to stop him, he drags me along: the thought of this alarms me.

war often breaks out when there is the most talk of peace.

It is day by day that we go forward; today we are as we were yesterday and tomorrow we shall be like ourselves today. So we go on without being aware of it, and this is one of the miracles of Providence that I so love.

It is thus that we walk through the world like the blind, not knowing whither we are going, regarding as bad what is good, regarding as good what is bad, and ever in entire ignorance.

. . . this life is a perpetual chequer-work of good and evil, pleasure and pain. When in possession of what we desire, we are only so much the nearer losing it; and when at a distance from it, we live in expectation of enjoying it again.

Reason bears disgrace, courage combats it, patience surmounts it.

It is sometimes best to slip over thoughts and not go to the bottom of them.

If we could have a little patience, we should escape much mortification; time takes away as much as it gives.

Thicken your religion a little. It is evaporating altogether by being subtilized.

Nothing is more certain of destroying any good feeling that may be cherished towards us than to show distrust. To be suspected as an enemy is often enough to make a man become so; the whole matter is over, there is no farther use of guarding against it. On the contrary, confidence leads us naturally to act kindly, we are affected by the good opinion which others entertain of us, and we are not easily induced to lose it.

there are some people who never acknowledge themselves in the wrong; God help them!

Faith creates the virtues in which it believes.

Why do we discover faults so much more readily than perfection.

I pity those who have no taste for reading.