Top 119 Quotes & Sayings by Robert De Niro

Explore popular quotes and sayings by an American actor Robert De Niro.
Last updated on April 14, 2025.
Robert De Niro

Robert Anthony De Niro Jr. is an American actor and producer. He is particularly known for his nine collaborations with filmmaker Martin Scorsese, and is the recipient of various accolades, including two Academy Awards, a Golden Globe Award, the Cecil B. DeMille Award, and a Screen Actors Guild Life Achievement Award. In 2009, De Niro received the Kennedy Center Honor, and received a Presidential Medal of Freedom from U.S. President Barack Obama in 2016.

I have so much respect for directors. It's a tremendous amount of pressure; you have to keep steadfast and keep what you know is right.
I'll work with a director if I think I'm going to get into a comfortable situation, and if it's someone I respect and who respects me, even if they're not so well known. Movies are hard to make, and you have to work toward a common ethic and do your best.
I go to Paris, I go to London, I go to Rome, and I always say, 'There's no place like New York. It's the most exciting city in the world now. That's the way it is. That's it.'
When you make a drama, you spend all day beating a guy to death with a hammer, or what have you. Or, you have to take a bite out of somebody's face. On the other hand, with a comedy, you yell at Billy Crystal for an hour, and you go home.
I like to visit L.A., but I wouldn't want to live there. — © Robert De Niro
I like to visit L.A., but I wouldn't want to live there.
There is a certain combination of anarchy and discipline in the way I work.
My mother worked for a woman, Maria Ley-Piscator, who with her husband founded the Dramatic Workshop, which was connected to the New School. My mother did proofreading and typing and stuff or her, and as part of her payment, I was able to take acting classes there on Saturdays when I was 10.
I'm lucky that I have whatever I had that makes me have a successful career, if you will.
My definition of a good hotel is a place I'd stay at.
If it's the right chair, it doesn't take too long to get comfortable in it.
The talent is in the choices.
In acting, I always try to go back to what would actually be the real situation, the real human behavior in life.
I don't get into these long-winded heavy discussions about character - do we do this or that or what. At the end of the day, what you gotta do is just go out there and do it.
With 'Silver Linings,' I didn't feel - I was thinking of certain things, but I just said, 'Let me go with it.' You have to know what you're doing, where you're going with the scenes, and I put a lot of work into that. But when you're out there, at the same time you gotta be ready for anything.
You learned the two greatest thing in life, never rat on your friends, and always keep your mouth shut. — © Robert De Niro
You learned the two greatest thing in life, never rat on your friends, and always keep your mouth shut.
Good directors can bring certain things out of you, with their intensity or gentleness or sensitivity or understanding. They can make an actor feel he can do no wrong.
I always tell actors when they go in for an audition: Don't be afraid to do what your instincts tell you. You may not get the part, but people will take notice.
The hardest thing about being famous is that people are always nice to you.
I think Hollywood has a class system. The actors are like the inmates, but the truth is they're running the asylum.
Italy has changed. But Rome is Rome.
You never know what you do that could be totally out of left field, which actually might work and give something fresh to the whole scene, to the character, whatever. If you have that with a director who then knows how to shape it, either in the direction, in the moment, or in the editing, then that's good.
I mean, the actors that I admired were Marlon Brando, Montgomery Clift, an actress named Barbara Harris. And Greta Garbo. They were great actors.
Time goes on. So whatever you're going to do, do it. Do it now. Don't wait.
There's nothing more ironic or contradictory than life itself.
I've never been one of those actors who has touted myself as a fascinating human being. I had to decide early on whether I was to be an actor or a personality.
When I was 15, 16, I studied with Stella Adler at the Conservatory of Acting, then I stopped again and went to the Actors Studio when I was 18.
The director respects what they've hired you for and chosen you for: to do the part and respect what you're doing.
I think it's important to have had at least a few years of obscurity, where people treat you like everybody else.
I didn't have a problem with rejection, because when you go into an audition, you're rejected already. There are hundreds of other actors. You're behind the eight ball when you go in there.
Movies are hard work. The public doesn't see that. The critics don't see it. But they're a lot of work. A lot of work.
Leonardo DiCaprio is a very serious young actor.
I always go back to how people behave. If you watch how people actually behave in a situation, it's very simple and honest and contained. You don't need to use as much expression, as much feeling. Some characters will boil over, and that's another thing, but a lot of times I think you can just do very, very little.
It's important not to indicate. People don't try to show their feelings, they try to hide them.
I love to find new people. It's not for the sake of their being new; it's because if you find someone who perfectly fits a part, that's such a great thing.
You draw on whatever's relevant to the part you're playing; it makes it more personal.
I don't like to watch my own movies - I fall asleep in my own movies.
You'll have time to rest when you're dead.
I'm not a big football person at all.
If it's a very emotional scene, you're kind of relieved when you've done it, kind of spent. And there are times when you can be rattled, certain characters if they're hyper, that can carry over, the residue of that. But I try to leave it on the set.
One of the things about acting is it allows you to live other people's lives without having to pay the price. — © Robert De Niro
One of the things about acting is it allows you to live other people's lives without having to pay the price.
I spent lunchtime in a grave during the filming of 'Bloody Mama.' When you're younger, you feel that's what you need to do to help you stay in character. When you get older, you become more confident and less intense about it - and you can achieve the same effect.
According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful.
The saddest thing in life is wasted talent
Passion should always trump common sense.
You talking to me? You talking to me? Then who the hell else are you talking to - you talking to me? Well, I'm the only one here.
If you don't co-operate you're gonna suffer from fistophobia.
If you're an actor, always be true to your character. If you are not an actor, have character and always be true to yourself.
If you don't go, you'll never know.
I never walk into a place I don't know how to walk out of.
There is only one way to gain access to the truth and that is to not expect anything. — © Robert De Niro
There is only one way to gain access to the truth and that is to not expect anything.
Better to be king for a night than a schmuck for a lifetime.
The older you get, the more you know about certain things.
Some day a real rain will come and wash all the scum off the streets.
You don'?t always have to have the answer to everything.
Reputation, you know – a lifetime to build, seconds to destroy.
When you love someone you gotta trust them, there's no other way. You gotta give them the key to everything that's yours. Otherwise, what's the point?
The mind of a writer can be a truly terrifying thing. Isolated, neurotic, caffeine-addled, crippled by procrastination, consumed by feelings of panic, self-loathing, and soul-crushing inadequacy. And that’s on a good day.
A lot of young actors have the idea that, "I've got to do this right. There's a right way to do this." But there's no right or wrong. There's only good and bad. And "bad" usually happens when you're trying too hard to do it right. There's a very broad spectrum of things that can inhibit you. The most important thing for actors - and not just actors, but everybody - is to feel loose enough to create what you want to create, and be free to try anything. To have choices.
You don't need words to express feelings.
Write down everything you want to do with your life and then spend the next 25 years doing them.
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