A Quote by Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea

They err, who say that husbands can't be lovers. — © Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea
They err, who say that husbands can't be lovers.
Men err when they think they can be inhuman exploiters in their business life, and loving husbands and fathers at home.
Poor maids have more lovers than husbands.
Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.
A poore beauty finds more lovers then husbands.
In general, women desire to rule over their husbands and lovers, to be the authority above them.
Deliver me from your cold phlegmatic preachers, politicians, friends, lovers and husbands.
Perhaps I'm just fickle by nature and get tired of countries the way other women do of husbands or lovers.
This is your life!!! The children/husbands/lovers are just one chapter. The stronger we (women) get the more loving we can be- to all.
We women feel we are here to serve. That's the mistake we make. We may have children, husbands, lovers, bills, responsibility. Those things don't own us, but too often we let them.
The good husbands understand and offer to help. "All you have to do is ask" they say. But even helpful husbands have to be thanked, their contributions acknowledged, credit given. All those pleases and thank yous. Being grateful takes time and energy. It's often easier to do it yourself.
If you love a woman, you can dominate her. That's why lovers go on playing politics with each other, dominating, possessing; the fear is there that if you don't dominate you will be lost and the other will dominate, so they continuously fight. Husbands and wives, lovers, go on fighting; the fight is for existence, to survive. The fear is there, "I may be lost in the other."
They'd never been lovers, of course, not in the physical sense. But they'd been lovers as most of us manage, loving through expressions and gestures and the palm set softly upon the bruise at the necessary moment. Lovers by inclination rather than by lust. Lovers, that is, by love.
If one is going to err, one should err on the side of liberty and freedom.
To err is human also in so far as animals seldom or never err, or at least only the cleverest of them do so.
While husbands and lovers in the stories are of all kinds, ranging from sympathetic to disgusting, women are invariably deceivers: inconstant, unscrupulous, quarrelsome, querulous, lecherous, shameless, although not necessarily all of these at once.
It has happened, women have helped their husbands, sacrificed their whole lives, never thought about themselves. Their surrender, their devotion to their lovers has been total. In this totality, they have achieved before their lover has.
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