The definition of disappointment in life is expectations minus reality equals disappointment. The only two solutions you have to get over disappointment is to either alter your reality or alter your expectations.
There’s a difference between losing something you knew you had and losing something you discovered you had. One is a disappointment. The other feels like losing a piece of yourself.
I still work that expectation/disappointment cycle all the time. I think it is part of the human nature and I think the most important thing is not to judge it. We are human and we do have expectations and a lot of our expectations are often not met. It is a process of learning how to be kind and compassionate and loving to ourselves when we don't get the things we want when people, circumstances, and opportunities don't match our expectations.
No expectations mean there is no risk of disappointment.
Ah, but if you have no expectations, You can never have a disappointment.
Disappointment proves that expectations were mistaken.
When you have expectations, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
The disappointment of losing is huge.
Cheerfulness consists in not regarding things as our own, but as entrusted to us by God for the benefit of our fellow-servants. It consists in scattering them abroad generously with joy and magnanimity, not reluctantly or under compulsion.
When you create Hope in people, you create expectations. When you do not fulfill those expectations, when the change becomes more of the same old, same old, the Hope that was created can only turn to anger, frustration and bitter disappointment.
Life delivers far less disappointment when your expectations are low.
Expectations are dangerous. I recommend not having any, if only to avoid disappointment.
That was my pride and joy - that I made it through all those years of minor hockey without losing any of my teeth; then, I ended up losing them in a car accident in New York when I was riding in a taxi. So, I end up losing my teeth, but not in the glamorous fashion I envisioned.
When you depend on another's perceptions to match your expectations, you're setting yourself up for disappointment.
Love is what enables us to bridge the gap of disappointment when others don't live up to the expectations we have of them.
Never raise expectations in others that you cannot realize: promise is less pleasing than disappointment is vexatious.