A Quote by David Deida
We eventually learn that emotional closure is our own action. We can be responsible for it. In any moment, we can choose to open or to close.
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The open mind never acts: when we have done our utmost to arrive at a reasonable conclusion, we still must close our minds for the moment with a snap, and act dogmatically on our conclusions.
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