A Quote by David Foster Wallace
The point is that petty, frustrating crap like this is exactly where the work of choosing comes in. Because the traffic jams and crowded aisles and long checkout lines give me time to think, and if I don't make a conscious decision about how to think and what to pay attention to, I'm going to be pissed and miserable every time I have to food-shop, because my natural default-setting is the certainty that situations like this are really all about me, about my hungriness and my fatigue and my desire to just get home.
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About
Attention
Because
Certainty
Choosing
Conscious
Conscious Decision
Crap
Crowded
Decision
Default
Desire
Every
Every Time
Exactly
Fatigue
Food
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Get
Give
Give Me
Going
Home
How
Just
Like
Lines
Long
Make
Me
Miserable
Natural
Pay
Pay Attention
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Shop
Situations
Think
Time
Time To Think
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