A Quote by Deepak Chopra
If you take the the insults of your fellow human beings personally, you will be offended for the rest of your life.
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Whatever you are doing, take the attitude of wanting it directly or indirectly to benefit others. Take the attitude of wanting it to increase your experience of kinship with your fellow beings.
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