The reason for forgiving your enemies is not for their benefit but for your own benefit. Holding grudges against other people doesn’t hurt them; doesn’t even bother them much - in fact, even pleases them if they are still mad at you. It is not in your enlightened self-interest to hold grudges, regardless of whether it bothers the person you hate or not.
I putter. I nurse old grudges. I fold origami while nursing old grudges. I think about the past. I wonder if there’s any grudges I should start.
Instead of holding grudges, it's better to learn from the bad experiences.
I'm just a person who forgives and forgets. I have a hard time holding grudges.
To be fair, life is too short. There is no point holding grudges or anything like that.
I see no point in holding grudges. I'd rather not have any negativity within me.
People say that forgiving is my flaw, but I really believe that holding grudges and anger is a waste of energy.
When it comes to hating, gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges, or wanting to cause harm, please apply the following: Stop it!
I am not holding any grudges against anyone. I've forgotten things that Rakhi Sawant has said or done to me.
I hold grudges, but I can't hate nobody; that's not my nature.
I have seen hate born of fear, hate speaking in the name of God and truth, hate holding up a distorting mirror to fellow human beings.
I'm the world's worst bearer of grudges. I'm sure I'll be bearing grudges and paying off old scores on my death-bed.
Steadfastness, that is holding on; patience, that is holding back; expectancy, that is holding the face up; obedience, that is holding one's self in readiness to go or do; listening, that is holding quiet and still so as to hear.
Since hate poisons the soul, don't cherish enmities or grudges: avoid people who make you unhappy.
I have some girls who I look back on and I think, 'Wow, they were really horrible to me.' I would love an apology from a few girls, but whatever. I'm not holding any grudges. I'm over it.
The opposite of love is not to hate but to separate. If love and hate have something in common it is because, in both cases, their energy is that of bringing and holding together