A Quote by Fraser Young

Flee flattery, false praise and fair weather friends — © Fraser Young
Flee flattery, false praise and fair weather friends
Young children are unlikely to have their self-esteem strengthened from excessive praise or flattery. On the contrary, it may raise some doubts in children; many children can see through flattery and may even dismiss an adult who heaps on praise as a poor source of support-one who is not very believable.
We must define flattery and praise; they are distinct. Trajan was encouraged to virtue by the panegyric Pliny; Tiberius became obstinate in vice from the flattery of his senators.
Fair weather weddings make fair weather lives.
There is nothing in the world more difficult than candor, and nothing easier than flattery. If there is a hundredth of a fraction of a false note to candor, it immediately produces dissonance, and as a result, exposure. But in flattery, even if everything is false down to the last note, it is still pleasant, and people will listen not without pleasure; with coarse pleasure, perhaps, but pleasure nevertheless.
You are a worksmith and who cares for his brothers, whos not seduced by illusions or fair weather friends.
If they want to criticize me, I don't care; I don't mind. But they must criticize me fairly. Usually, the criticism is not fair. Or the praise, even the praise sometimes is not fair.
We have lost the old love of work, of work which kept itself company, which was fair weather and music in the heart, which found its reward in the doing, craving neither the flattery of vulgar eyes nor the gold of vulgar men.
True praise comes often even to the lowly; false praise only to the strong.
Only praise behavior that you want to be repeated. Never use false praise.
We're not fair weather friends. We've been in places for a long, long time.
Flattery is praise without foundation.
We are not fond of praising, and never praise any one except from interested motives. Praise is a clever, concealed, and delicate flattery, which gratifies in different ways the giver and the receiver. The one takes it as a recompense of his merit, and the other bestows it to display his equity and discernment.
False praise is worse than no praise.
Just praise is only a debt, but flattery is a present.
Flattery is praise insincerely given for an interested purpose.
O heresy in fair, fit for these days, A giving hand, though foul, shall have fair praise.
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