A Quote by George Augustus Henry Sala

Life is a system of relations rather than a positive and independent existence; and he who would be happy himself and make others happy must carefully preserve these relations. He cannot stand apart in surly and haughty egoism; let him learn that he is as much dependent on others as others are on him.

George Augustus Henry Sala

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George Augustus Henry Sala
Journalist
November 24, 1828 - December 8, 1895

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