A Quote by Hugh Prather

If your reaction to your partner's fear-or any other form of distress- is disdain or irritation, you do not want oneness or even friendship with your partner at that moment.

Hugh Prather

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Any Disdain Distress Even Fear Form Friendship Irritation Moment Oneness Other Partner Reaction That Moment Want Your

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Hugh Prather
American - Writer
January 23, 1938 - November 15, 2010

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