A Quote by Jay Haley

It is impossible to win a contest with a helpless opponent since if you win you have won nothing. — © Jay Haley
It is impossible to win a contest with a helpless opponent since if you win you have won nothing.
Before Rocky III, I was minding my own business, there was a Tough Man contest. I won that contest two years in a row and I didn't win because I was the toughest, the roughest or the baddest. I won when I was training for the contest, I told my pastor "They're having a contest and when I win the contest I'm a give you the money so you can buy food and clothes for the less fortunate people in the community." That was what Mr. T was about, that was back in 1979. I didn't have a car then but that's what I'm about.
Gore will not win a popularity contest, he will not win a personality contest, but he can win an idealogical battle, and he can win a battle of experience.
What we've been trying to do is difficult. You know it's difficult to win one, to win two. Madness to win three. But to try and come back to win it again should be impossible really.
When conflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.
When you're facing an opponent over a broad front, you don't aim for the opponent's strong points, important though they may be. Pick a little outpost that you can capture and win. And then you find another place that you can capture and win it, and then you move slowly toward the big places.
For the past weeks I'd been reacting. That was no way to win. To win, you take the initiative. You instigate the action. You make the opponent react to you.
I was that overachieving, annoying kid who was always trying to win some contest or win the role. I look back on it now and I'm like, "Chill, man." Calm down.
In America you're conditioned to regard everything as a contest. You have to make the Ten Best Dressed List, win this, win that. It drives me nuts sometimes. Who cares, for Christ's sake?
After I win a contest the only thing I allow myself to do is buy a little bit of jewelry - but that's only if I win. And that's about it.
Dusty Rhodes wouldn't win a body building contest for best abs, MacMahon, he'd win for MOST abs.
It is impossible to win the race unless you venture to run, impossible to win the victory unless you dare to battle.
I have found life highly competitive. I accept it. It is useless, merely a hypocritical humbug, to sincerely wish your opponent to win. If you are out to win you are better not wanting to know your opponent, much less grow to like him - and wish him, honestly success over you. I have never functioned that way.
It is impossible to win gracefully at chess. No man has yet said "Mate!" in a voice which failed to sound to his opponent bitter, boastful and malicious.
Honestly, I've not looked too deeply into my opponent, he's just another fighter. From my side, I've just got to win and win in style.
All the stats don't mean a thing if we don't get the win. The most important stat is the win. Nothing else really matters if you don't get the win.
To win, you have to involve all your teammates because if not, it is too difficult. One guy, it is impossible to win something big.
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