A Quote by Jean de la Bruyere

It is a proof of boorishness to confer a favor with a bad grace; it is the act of giving that is hard and painful. How little does a smile cost? — © Jean de la Bruyere
It is a proof of boorishness to confer a favor with a bad grace; it is the act of giving that is hard and painful. How little does a smile cost?
If you want to make a good first impression, smile at people. What does it cost to smile? Nothing. What does it cost not to smile? Everything, if not smiling prevents you from enchanting people.
It is boorish to live ungraciously: the giving is the hardest part; what does it cost to add a smile?
When you confer a benefit on those worthy of it, you confer a favor on all.
When anyone in Washington asks for a favor, no matter how little the favor means to you, act pained and get as much as you can in exchange - even if the person asking is the president of the United States.
It was only a sunny smile, and little it cost in the giving, but like morning light it scattered the night and made the day worth living.
Riches may enable us to confer favors, but to confer them with propriety and grace requires a something that riches cannot give.
Each act of cruelty is eternally a part of the universe; nothing that happens later can make that act good rather than bad, or can confer perfection on the whole of which it is a part.
Becoming a resident of a state may confer the right to get a driver's license, but it does not and should not confer citizenship.
It is is easy to smile. It is an act of self-giving. When you smile you are at your best and you give that best to others.
This is how to avoid re-creating painful situations: Take the time to discover your real intention before you act. If it is to change someone or the world so that you will feel safe or better about yourself, don't act on it, because it is an intention of fear and can create only painful consequences.
To accept a favor from a friend is to confer one.
To refuse graciously is to confer a favor.
A proof only becomes a proof after the social act of "accepting it as a proof".
A little more kindness, A little less speed, A little more giving, A little less greed, A little more smile, A little less frown, A little less kicking, A man while he's down, A little more "We", A little less "I", A little more laugh, A little less cry, A little more flowers, On the pathway of life, And fewer on graves, At the end of the strife.
Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor - without expecting something in return.
Grace is the very opposite of merit... Grace is not only undeserved favor, but it is favor, shown to the one who has deserved the very opposite.
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