A Quote by Jenny Zhang
It's very Western to idealize a kind of love that does not come with any expectations, that still permits both the giver and recipient to be completely free.
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Service heals the recipient and the giver.
My tendency to idealize Western civilization arises from my nationalistic desire to use the West in order to reform China. But this has led me to overlook the flaws of Western culture.
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