I know from personal experience how damaging it can be to live with bitterness and unforgiveness. I like to say it's like taking poison and hoping your enemy will die. And it really is that harmful to us to live this way.
Hate wears you down and doesn’t hurt your enemy. It’s like taking poison and hoping your enemy will die.
Unforgiveness is the poison you drink every day
hoping that the other person will die.
Unforgiveness is like drinking poison yourself and waiting for the other person to die.
Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.
Resentment is like taking poison in hopes that your enemy will die.
Not forgiving somebody is like drinking poison and hoping that the offender will get sick.
A wise person once wrote, “Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping the other person would die.” But the only one dying is ourselves.
Hanging on to a resentment, someone once said, is like drinking poison and hoping it will kill someone else.
Refusing to forgive is like ingesting a lethal dose of poison and hoping it kills my enemy.
Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
In fact, not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.
Resentment is like a glass of poison that a man drinks; then he sits down and waits for his enemy to die.
Drinking, eating, shopping, revenge, rebound sex, drugs or whatever your poison may be will number the pain - but that's all.
An enemy, Ender Wiggin," whispered the old man. "I am your enemy, the first one you've ever had who was smarter than you. There is no teacher but the enemy. No one but the enemy will tell you what the enemy is going to do. No one but the enemy will ever teach you how to destroy and conquer. Only the enemy shows you where you are weak. Only the enemy tells you where he is strong. And the rules of the game are what you can do to him and what you can stop him from doing to you. I am your enemy from now on. From now on I am your teacher.
Stop all this weeping, swallow your pride/ You will not die, its not poison -Tombstone Blues