A Quote by Laura van den Berg

To a certain degree, I think both self-narrativizing and selective memory are essential survival skills. — © Laura van den Berg
To a certain degree, I think both self-narrativizing and selective memory are essential survival skills.
Both 'Saturday Church' and 'Pose' are incredible because they demonstrate something essential about survival. When you get pushed hard enough by certain circumstances, your survival mechanism kicks in, and you grow into the things that you need or are missing in your life.
I learned that I never really know the true story of my guests' lives, that I have to content myself with knowing that when I'm interviewing somebody, I'm getting a combination of fact and truth and self-mythology and self-delusion and selective memory and faulty memory.
Selective memory is surely one of nature's most effective ways of ensuring the survival of our species.
The mammalian brain evolved exquisite place memory because that was essential for survival. This is why squirrels have such a good memory for where they buried their nuts.
In a memoir, I think, the contract implies a certain degree of truth. I think you have to be as true to your memory and your experience as you possibly can.
The selective memory isn't selective enough.
It is the acquisition of skills in particular, irrespective of their utility, that is potent in making life meaningful. Since man has no inborn skills, the survival of the species has depended on the ability to acquire and perfect skills. Hence the mastery of skills is a uniquely human activity and yields deep satisfaction.
I realized that I was writing about folks with lots of skills, especially fix-it skills and survival skills, who were nonetheless not doing well in the new-millennium America.
But theological change happens though selective quoting. Every religious person does it: You quote those verses that resonate with your own religious insights and ignore or reinterpret those that undermine your certainties. Selective quoting isn't just legitimate, but essential: Religions evolve through shifts in selective quoting.
Both of my girls have very high self-esteem because they were both able to master certain things; I should think that's good for their confidence.
We as Americans and as humans have very selective hearing and very selective memory. We only hear what we want to hear and disregard the rest.
To me, poetry is about survival first of all. Survival of the individual self, survival of the emotional life.
I think memory is essential to what we are. If we - we wouldn't be able to talk to each other without memory. And what we think of as the present really is the past. It is made out of the past.
I think we all do craft a certain self-image. I guess the degree that our internal self-image matches the image we project, we perhaps feel really uncomfortable in the world when there is a difference. That can cause a lot of stress or bad feelings about ourselves.
Memory is essential to who we are, and memories can be both implicit and explicit - unconscious and conscious.
I think the secret to a hoppy life is a selective memory. Remember what you are most grateful for and quickly forget what your not.
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