A Quote by Mason Cooley

People who expect deference resent mere civility. — © Mason Cooley
People who expect deference resent mere civility.
Governments never do any great good things from mere principle, from mere love of justice ... You expect too much of human nature when you expect that.
John Stuart Mill, in his wonderful 1859 book On Liberty, talks about civility. And this is why you should always be concerned about calls for civility. He points out that civility ends up getting defined by the people who are in charge. And you'll notice that when people argue for civility, they tend to actually believe that whatever they say is civil. And if they're angry about it, it's righteous rage. But if you say it and it's kind of sharp or mean, then it's incivil. ... And sometimes, disagreement-to be productive-can't be all that civil.
We see a decline of civility, and, sadly, it’s often modeled by the very people from whom we have the least right to expect it.
Among the arts of conversation no one pleases more than mutual deference or civility, which leads us to resign our own inclinations to those of our companions, and to curb and conceal that presumption and arrogance so natural to the human mind.
What I find is with all due deference to - deference to our male colleagues, that women's styles tend to be more collaborative.
I just think that we show an awful lot of deference to chefs in our culture and maybe not enough deference to customers.
There is great power in deference. Deference works with everybody.
It's too much to expect in an academic setting that we should all agree, but it is not too much to expect discipline and unvarying civility.
Our civility, England determines the style of, inasmuch as England is the strongest of the family of existing nations, and as we are the expansion of that people. It is that of a trading nation; it is a shopkeeping civility. The English lord is a retired shopkeeper, and has the prejudices and timidities of that profession.
Civility does not ...mean the mere outward gentleness of speech cultivated for the occasion, but an inborn gentleness and desire to do the opponent good.
Civility is perhaps a quaint notion but civility in Parliament is something we should always strive to uphold.
Civility isn't just some optional value in a multicultural, multistate democratic republic. Civility is the key to civilization.
People don't resent you for being brave. They resent themselves for being afraid.
Must love be ever treated with profaneness as a mere illusion? or with coarseness as a mere impulse? or with fear as a mere disease? or with shame as a mere weakness? or with levity as a mere accident? whereas it is a great mystery and a great necessity, lying at the foundation of human existence, morality, and happiness,--mysterious, universal, inevitable as death.
Her companion's discourse now sunk from its hitherto animated pitch, to nothing more than a short, decisive sentence of praise or condemnation on the face of every woman they met; and Catherine, after listening and agreeing as long as she could,with all the civility and deference of the youthful female mind, fearful of hazarding an opinion of its own in opposition to that of a self-assured man, especially where the beauty of her own sex is concerned, ventured at length to vary the subject.
The insolent civility of a proud man is, if possible, more shocking than his rudeness could be; because he shows you, by his manner, that he thinks it mere condescension in him; and that his goodness alone bestows upon you what you have no pretense to claim.
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