A Quote by Mignon McLaughlin
With men, as with women, the main struggle is between vanity and comfort; but with men, comfort often wins.
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Rich and great people can take care of themselves; but the poor and defenceless - the men with small cottages and large families - the men who must work six days every week if they are to live in anything like comfort for a week, - these men want defenders; they want men to maintain their position in Parliament; they want men who will protest against any infringement of their rights.
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