A Quote by Stephen Sondheim

Ah, but if you have no expectations, You can never have a disappointment. — © Stephen Sondheim
Ah, but if you have no expectations, You can never have a disappointment.
The definition of disappointment in life is expectations minus reality equals disappointment. The only two solutions you have to get over disappointment is to either alter your reality or alter your expectations.
Never raise expectations in others that you cannot realize: promise is less pleasing than disappointment is vexatious.
All my life, I never gave up on music and though there was a lot of disappointment for some that the commercial thing never happened, it has never been a disappointment for me.
I still work that expectation/disappointment cycle all the time. I think it is part of the human nature and I think the most important thing is not to judge it. We are human and we do have expectations and a lot of our expectations are often not met. It is a process of learning how to be kind and compassionate and loving to ourselves when we don't get the things we want when people, circumstances, and opportunities don't match our expectations.
If I fulfill YOUR expectations, how am I going to transform you? I have to DESTROY your expectations. I have to destroy the very mind that creates those expectations. If you come to me, never come with expectations, otherwise you will be disappointed - because I have no obligation to fulfill your expectations in any way. In fact, if I see that there are some expectations, I do things DELIBERATELY to destroy those expectations. That is the price you have to pay to be with me.
No expectations mean there is no risk of disappointment.
Disappointment proves that expectations were mistaken.
The joy of losing consists in this: Where there are no expectations, there is no disappointment.
When you have expectations, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
When you create Hope in people, you create expectations. When you do not fulfill those expectations, when the change becomes more of the same old, same old, the Hope that was created can only turn to anger, frustration and bitter disappointment.
The bible never belittles disappointment, but it does add one key word: temporary - What we feel now, we will not always feel. Our disappointment is itself a sign, and aching, a hunger for something better. And faith is, in the end, a kind of homesickness - for a home we have never visited but have never once stopped longing for.
Life delivers far less disappointment when your expectations are low.
Expectations are dangerous. I recommend not having any, if only to avoid disappointment.
When you depend on another's perceptions to match your expectations, you're setting yourself up for disappointment.
If you don't know, then it's all right. There need not be any expectations. If there are no expectations, then you are free. If you expect, then you are in bondage. Choose whatever you want. Expectations are never fulfilled.
Love is what enables us to bridge the gap of disappointment when others don't live up to the expectations we have of them.
This site uses cookies to ensure you get the best experience. More info...
Got it!