A Quote by Susan Beth Pfeffer
I thought about how unlikely it was I would ever meet any guy,fall in love, get married, have babies. Especially since I was going to spend the rest of my life in the cellar, where, in the not too distant future, I'd turn into a toadstool. I hoped I'd be the poisonous variety.
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I fall in love too terribly hard, for love to ever last
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And still I fall in love too easily, I fall in love too fast
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