A Quote by Tom Stoppard

Honesty is seldom ingratiating and often discomfiting. — © Tom Stoppard
Honesty is seldom ingratiating and often discomfiting.
'Honesty' in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a difference between being candid in what you're talking about, and people voicing their insulting opinions under the name of honesty.
I'd written personal essays before, but never on this scale -- never so often and with such, er, honesty. (If by honesty I mean slashing my wrists and hemorrhaging all over the computer screen).
Honesty is often very hard. The truth is often painful. But the freedom it can bring is worth the trying.
I am an idealist. I often feel I would like to be an artist in an ivory tower. Yet it is imperative that I speak to people, so I must desert that ivory tower. To do this, I am a journalist - a photojournalist. But I am always torn between the attitude of the journalist, who is a recorder of facts, and the artist, who is often necessarily at odds with the facts. My principle concern is for honesty, above all honesty with myself.
Pity a thing often avowed, seldom felt; hatred is a thing often felt, seldom avowed.
Shrewdness in public life all over the world is always honored, while honesty in public men is generally attributed to dumbness and is seldom rewarded.
Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised, or a little mistaken.
We may argue eloquently that 'Honesty is the best Policy' - unfortunately, the moment honesty is adopted for the sake of policy it mysteriously ceases to be honesty.
I think country music is about honesty. Any art has to have honesty to start with, as the core of it. I mean, they're just going to manipulate you in one way or the other, but there has to honesty at the core of it.
Jason McDermott can be the most ingratiating young man: a born politician.
I tend to be the type who is overly polite and sort of ingratiating to other people.
We seldom speak of what we have but often of what we lack.
Integrity, honesty, and honor may not give immediate rewards or gratification, and they can be life-threatening (for example, being a whistle-blower or turning state's evidence). The absence of integrity, honesty, and honor do not always bring punishment or scorn, and can be life-aggrandizing (connivers and cheats often gain power and wealth). Therefore, morality must be its own reward.
Things are often spoke and seldom meant.
The vision of an entire world becoming just like us is at least as discomfiting as the thought that most of it won't.
As discomfiting as it is to both market optimists and policy activists, a certain amount of instability is inherent to the economy.
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