A Quote by Naomi Wolf

From 1970 onwards, our culture told both sexes that individual expression was paramount. And for women, that was defined as the right to choose an interesting a career, a high-status mate, the desirable handbag or vacation, the perfect family size, and a definitionally fruitless quest for 'perfection.'

Naomi Wolf

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Naomi Wolf
American - Author
Born: November 12, 1962

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Warren Farrell

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A.S. King

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