A Quote by Guy Finley
Real change isn't found in some new way to think about yourself, but in freedom from the need to think about yourself at all.
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Some stuff happened outside of tennis, and it made me realize that you just have to think about yourself, just focus on yourself, and don't worry too much about the other things because they can change very fast from positive to negative.
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If you want to remember yourself, the best thing is not to think about yourself. As long as you think about yourself, you will not remember yourself.
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