A Quote by Benjamin Nelson
It hardly needs saying that such mutualistic communities will also be plagued by conflict. Conflict is at the very heart of life, resulting not simply from the malevolence of others in the struggle for place or portion, but also from the fact that men of the best will in the world seem to suffer incurably, so far as one can tell, from what William Jame called "a certain blindness" in perceiving the vitalities of others.
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Is there any conflict between science and religion? There is no conflict in the mind of God, but often there is conflict in the minds of men.
