A Quote by Marguerite Gardiner, Countess of Blessington
Bores: People who talk of themselves, when you are thinking only of yourself.
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If God bores you, tell Him that He bores you, that you prefer the vilest amusements to His presence, that you only feel at your ease when you are far from Him.
People who talk only of themselves think only of themselves.
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As a rule, I think they are quite impossible. Geniuses talk so much, don't they? Such a bad habit! And they are always thinking about themselves, when I want them to be thinking about me.
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