A Quote by Sara Zarr

When the remembering was done, the forgetting could begin. — © Sara Zarr
When the remembering was done, the forgetting could begin.
Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering--remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
What made losing someone you loved bearable was not remembering but forgetting. Forgetting small things first... it's amazing how much you could forget, and everything you forgot made that person less alive inside you until you could finally endure it. After more time passed you could let yourself remember, even want to remember. But even then what you felt those first days could return and remind you the grief was still there, like old barbed wire embedded in a tree's heartwood.
Just remember enough never to be vulnerable again: total forgetting could be as self-destructive as complete remembering.
Forgiving is forgetting, in spite of remembering.
Remembering. Forgetting. I'm not sure which is worse.
Forgetting is natural, remembering is the effort one makes.
Forgiving is not forgetting. It is remembering and letting go.
Why is it that we are born remembering, and live forgetting?
The problem of forgetting might not torment us so much if we could only convince ourselves that remembering isn't important. Perhaps the things we learn - words, dates, formulas, historical and biographical details - don't really matter. Facts can be looked up. That's what the Internet is for.
Friendship consists in forgetting what one gives and remembering what one receives.
Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting to remember, but remembering to forget.
Remembering is the most overrated thing. Forgetting is far superior.
Forgetting and remembering are governed by laws, but we cannot find out what they are.
In the practical use of our intellect, forgetting is as important as remembering.
Worship is forgetting about what's wrong with you and remembering what's right with God.
Originality is the fine art of remembering what you hear but forgetting where you heard it.
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