A Quote by Louise J. Kaplan
A man's fatherliness is enriched as much by his acceptance of his feminine and childlike strivings as it is by his memories of tender closeness with his own father. A man who has been able to accept tenderness from his father is able later in life to be tender with his own children.
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Presence. We are holy in His holiness, loving in His love, strong in His
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